I have met a gal online and we meet up Sunday!! The tentative plan is to hike and eat/coffee afterwards. She is a workaholic - as I was, but is getting ready to retire. She was married for many years but her husband died. She speaks very highly of her past husband and I find that appealing.
I try to speak highly of my ex-wife as well. She gave me my 3 children!!!!! I can never thank my ex enough for that and being such a great cook, housekeeper and kept me settled down.
I am finding out that widowhood has its own kind of guilt and shame associated with it. I've never been a widower so I had no idea. My last girlfriend was a widow. I think her grieving her ex was part of why we broke up. I just could not understand the grieving. So, I am learning about the loss of a partner.
I will stay in a campground after our meeting.
She has to work Monday, so I have no clue where I am going on Monday. My CA tour will start Monday it seems.
Enjoy Your Day!!