http://www.motherjones.com/politics/2014/03/kathryn-edin-poverty-research-fatherhood
"People were embracing higher and higher standards for marriage," Edin
explains. From a financial standpoint alone, "the men that would have
been marriageable [in the 1950s] are no longer marriageable now. That's a
cultural change." The low-income women in Edin's study reported that
decent, trustworthy, available men were in short supply in their
communities, where there were often major sex imbalances thanks to high
incarceration rates. This, Edin found, was why low-income women were
willing to decouple childbearing from marriage: They believed if they
waited until everything was perfect, they might never have children. And
children, says Edin, are "the thing in life you can't live without." As
one subject explained, "I don't wanna have a big trail of divorce, you
know. I'd rather say, 'Yes, I had my kids out of wedlock' than say, 'I
married this idiot.' It's like a pride thing."
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