This is what really happened when President Obama met with the families of the dead and injured in OR.

http://www.addictinginfo.org/2015/10/10/this-is-what-really-happened-when-the-president-visited-with-ucc-victims-families/

President Obama was your concerned President who listened more than he talked.  I admire President Obama for going to talk to these families.  I think the protestors are nuts though.